“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.”—I Corinthians 13:4-8a (NIV)

This verse describes the characteristics of true love. These qualities can certainly be found in the person of Jesus Christ, and they can be found in all truly loving relationships. The problem with trying to “find” love in our dating lives, is that too often we don't look for these characteristics. Rather we look at physical appearance, popularity, or wealth. These are not the qualities that God looks at and neither should we.

But the LORD said to Samuel, “…The LORD does not look at the things man looks at. Man looks at the outward appearance, but the LORD looks at the heart.—I Samuel 16:7b (NIV)

Love is best seen as devotion and action, not an emotion. Love is not exclusively based on how we feel. Certainly our emotions are involved, but they cannot be our only criteria for love. True devotion will always lead to action—true love.  Dear children, let us not love with words or tongue but with ACTIONS and in truth. I John 3:18 (NIV) Dear Children of God learn how to show your love to your Partner because She/He deserves that from you, do not keep it to yourself and say but She/He knows I Love Her/Him why should I show that in my actions or say it in my words. Please try to understand that Love is not only words said in occassions or once a while but it is a lifestyle and comes out from inside out to your Partner when it is TRUE.

Unconditioned love means to love without conditions. This might sound simple but it really entails a lot.Feeling loved and becoming unconditionally loving doesn’t happen all at once. Experiencing real loves takes time and patience and you’ll stumble and fall along the way.Unconditional love love is loving your self and your neighbor and friend totally without the concept of judgment or need.Unconditional love, loves totally without even the concept of need for the love to be returned.But the the journey is well worth every effort. This not fantasy. Thousands of people have successfully used this simple process to find real love, genuine happiness and fulfill relationships.However, sometimes we are thinking that, we can’t just unconditionally love people when they’re wrong, Somebody has to speak up when mistakes are made.It’s true that we sometimes do have responsibility to teach and correct people – children and employees for example. But that never has to be done with disappointment and anger, the two signs that always reveal that your true motivation is to get something for ourselves and that is not real love.Loving people unconditionally also doesn’t mean that you have their responsibility to give them everything they want. That would just be indulgent and irresponsible.When we love people unconditionally, we accept them as they are and contribute to their happiness as wisely as we can.Unconditional love is the perfection of love and caring. It is the truth of love  and caring.The Feeling of Unconditional Love  is the Love of Jesus Christ on the Cross for YOU & ME, this shows us the greatest Love ever given to us. So lets learn how to Love and give true Love Unconditionally as per the Heart of Jesus Christ.

And after the earthquake a fire; but the LORD was not in the fire; and after the fire a still small voice.
1 King 19:12 (King James Version)
Dearest Abba, Father, Adonai Osenu, Creator of everything visible and invisible. You control every...thing. You are most spectacular. You work amazing miracles. Earth quakes and storms obey You and testify Your awesome power. But out of Your everlasting love toward us, You choose to lean over us and talk to us in ever so calming still voice of Yours. When we are down and vulnerable You give us courage and strength through Your Word. You shut out demonic strongholds raging against us by Your Word. By Your word You harness even the powers and means of our enemies for our good. My Lord God, arise and speak to unlock the seals of demonic chains over our life and liberate us to flourish in the freedom Your blessings. Let not our enemies to rejoice over us. Don't count our sins against us. Forgive us according to the multitude of Your tender mercies. Help us to be ready to hear Your still voice. Let us hear Your heartbeats. Help us to cling to You at all times. Through the grace of Jesus Christ , Our High Priest who has compassion on our shortcomings and failings, we pray. Amen.

A Woman.. came from man’s Ribs and not from his Feet to be trampled on.. Not from His head to be superior, ... but from the Side to be equal.. Under His Arms to be protected,and next to the Heart
to be Loved.

Love and blessings to all

Beloved Wives! Know how to Love your Husbands in the proper way.

Tit 2:4 That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children,
In the tiny book of Titus, I discovered that I am to hold my future husband first in my heart after God. That's the clear implication of God's instruction to the older women in the church who are to teach the younger women how to be women after God's heart. The first thing married women are to learn and practice is to love their husbands.
God loves you and me unconditionally regardless of our shortcomings, and certainly all wives are to love their husbands with that kind of unconditional love. But when God instructs us to "love" our husband in Titus 2:4, the word is phileo, meaning friendship love, a love that cherishes, enjoys, and likes our husband! We are to value him and build a friendship with him. We should see our husband as our best friend and want to be with him more than any other person.
How can a wife nurture a heart of love, a heart prepared to support her husband in practical ways "until death do us part"?
Decide to make your husband your number one human relationship. Our relationship with our husband is meant to be more important than the relationships we enjoy with our parents, friends, a good neighbor, a brother or sister, a best friend, and even our children, and the way we use our time should reflect that rank ordering!
After all, God said that we are to "leave and cleave", to leave our parents and cleave to our mate (Genesis 2:24). When parents are involved in a child's marriage, when God's commands are not obeyed and His priorities for relationships are not observed, problems arise.
A short advice to all wives before I continue. Always let your husbands know what you are doing; never do something behind his back. Always involve your husband in your thoughts when you want to do something, it doesn’t mean you are unable to do anything alone, but it means respect to your Husband and makes him know he is so important to you that is why you love and gladly like to share with him everything you do. Because the moment you both got married you are not two anymore but one. Everything you do is sharing for each other’s Amen!
To make your husband number one will take some work as you deal with drop-in parents, learn not to plan things with either set of parents (or anyone else, for that matter) without asking Mr. Number One first, and handle expectations (Of course, you'll be spending Christmas with us?...Or coming over every Sunday?....Or calling every day?). Your husband has to be Number One, and know it. And everyone else needs to know it, too.
Begin to choose your husband over all other human relationships. Again, this includes your children.
I know too many men who, when their children came, turned down a lonesome road. And when you've gone too long single file, its hard coming back to double. So much has happened alone it just seems easier to say, "It's too late now".
You're wise to keep checking priorities. You can be both mother and wife. But the wise woman remembers she will begin and end as a wife.
As I said at the beginning, we should see our husband as our best friend and we should work on building a friendship with him. That work takes planning, but the rewards are definitely worth the effort as they flow out of a heart that loves. Why not pause and pray for your husband, your number one friend, right now? Thank God for the love for your husband He has placed in your heart and ask for His help in sharing it with your husband. After you say "Amen", plan to do something special for your husband today that sends a message of friendship from your heart to his.